Blackletter Illinois divorce, step by step

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Where your case stands

Where the case stands

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Why being served matters

A divorce petition is not a case for money, so Ill. S. Ct. R. 101(d) controls: the summons requires an appearance “within 30 days after service, exclusive of the day of service.” The clock is keyed to service of summons, which the clerk issues under 735 ILCS 5/2-201(a).

On an individual, 735 ILCS 5/2-203 allows only two ways to serve a person: hand the papers to them, or leave them at their home with someone 13 or older and also mail a copy. Email is neither. Serving by email needs a judge’s order under 735 ILCS 5/2-203.1. A judge gives that order only when the first two ways cannot work, and only after a sworn statement that the person could not be found.

Counsel emailing a file-stamped petition, and asking that your attorney call, has no procedural effect. It starts no clock, and it does not confer personal jurisdiction.

Ill. S. Ct. R. 11 is about sending papers once both spouses are already in the case. It is not a way to serve the first papers. If a court never had power over a person, its judgment is void and can be challenged at any time under 735 ILCS 5/2-1401(f), outside the two-year limit.

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Deadlines

Each deadline is a starting date plus a number of days set by law. They are worked out from the dates in your case details. A deadline that lands on a weekend or court holiday moves to the next court day.

Your deadlines

The rules used to count

How days are counted 5 ILCS 70/1.11

“The time within which any act provided by law is to be done shall be computed by excluding the first day and including the last, unless the last day is Saturday or Sunday or is a holiday … and then it shall also be excluded. If the day succeeding such Saturday, Sunday or holiday is also a holiday or a Saturday or Sunday then such succeeding day shall also be excluded.”

Intermediate weekends and holidays count. Only the landing day rolls, and it cascades forward through consecutive non-business days.

Extra days when papers are mailed or shipped Ill. S. Ct. R. 12(c)

MethodService complete
Electronic / personal deliveryDay it is sent. No extra days
Third-party commercial carrierThird court day after it is given to the carrier. 3 court days
U.S. mailFour days after mailing. 4 calendar days

Carriers count court days. Mail counts calendar days.

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Checklist

A longer list of things to do and check, in order. Each item says which rule makes it matter. What you tick is saved in this browser.

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Your papers

Keep a list of every paper in your case, so nothing gets lost.

Add a paper

“Add from files” keeps a copy of each file (up to 25 MB) in this browser, so you can open it later. The copies never leave this device and are not part of a backup file. Emails count too: save one as a PDF and add it like any other file.

Your list

A simple way to file your papers

Keep filed papers, drafts, blank forms and proof in separate folders. Then you can find the right paper fast if a judge or the other side asks for it.

CASE_FILE/
├── 00_INDEX/            manifest, this file, chronology
├── 01_PLEADINGS/        filed & file-stamped only
├── 02_DRAFTS/           unfiled work product
│   └── _archive/        superseded drafts
├── 03_CORRESPONDENCE/   letters in & out, email PDFs
├── 04_EVIDENCE/
│   ├── YYYY-MM-DD_incident/   reports, media, transcripts
│   └── media/                 large video originals
├── 05_FINANCIAL/        401(k), statements, affidavits
├── 06_FORMS_BLANK/      unfilled court forms
├── 07_RESEARCH/         statutes, local rules, mediator list
└── 08_TOOLS/            blackletter, scripts

Your county

Statewide law says what to file. Each judge’s own rules, called a standing order, say how and when. This page shows them for the Will County family courtrooms.

Courtroom 704 is only for cases with no lawyers

Judge Orenic's standing order, in effect from 6/24/2026, says Courtroom 704 only hears cases where neither spouse has a lawyer. If either side has a lawyer, the case is moved right away to Judge Kennison (Courtroom 703), who gives it to another judge.

So if either side has a lawyer, the case belongs with Meyers (701), Granholm (702), Kennison (703) or McSteen (705). Check which judge you actually have, because their rules for pre-trial papers and financial affidavits are very different.

Source: circuitclerkofwillcounty.com/Judge-Rules/Judge-Orenic

The family judges compared

Every family courtroom hears motions at 9:00 a.m. No courtroom hears disputed matters on Zoom. Every judge asks you not to send extra copies.

Filing in Will County

Use the statewide appearance form, not Form 17B

Will County's Form 17B (revised 04/26) is titled “Appearance by Attorney”: it is for lawyers only. Will County has no numbered appearance form for people without a lawyer.

Divorce cases need their own appearance form. The general civil appearance form is also wrong. The correct form is the statewide ATJ 111.5 (03/25) “Appearance (Divorce).”

The clerk’s divorce page still lists an older code, “DV-A 111.4.” Use the current form.

Open the statewide Appearance (Divorce) form

What we have not confirmed yet

The 12th Circuit local rules are only posted as a scanned picture, so the words cannot be searched or copied. We know each rule’s number and topic, but not its exact words.

A readable copy of the local rules (Parts 8 and 18) from the courthouse law library (3rd floor, 100 W. Jefferson St., Joliet) would settle most of these.

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Laws and rules

Words you will see

TermMeaning
Service (of process)Official delivery of the lawsuit to you. It is what gives the court power over you and starts your response clock.
SummonsThe court’s cover document ordering a response within a set time.
AppearanceThe filing that makes you a participant in the case.
Petitioner / RespondentWho filed the case, and who responds to it.
Without a lawyerHandling your own case, with no lawyer. Court papers may call this “self-represented.”
Personal jurisdictionThe court’s power over you as a person.
Ex parteHeard with only one side present.
DefaultLosing by not appearing or not responding in time.
Temporary reliefCourt orders under 750 ILCS 5/501 that hold things in place while the case runs.
MaintenanceSpousal support. The word that replaced alimony in Illinois.
DissipationShared money or property one spouse used just for themselves while the marriage was ending.
DiscoveryThe formal exchange of information and documents between the parties.
Prove-upThe short final hearing where the judgment is entered.
Standing orderA judge’s published rules for how their own courtroom runs.
CMCCase management conference. A scheduling check-in with the court.
Motion / Notice of motionA written request for a ruling, and the notice that tells the other side when it will be presented.

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Calculators

Deadlines, spousal support, and the time limits for claiming wasted money. The rule under each answer shows where it comes from.

Count a deadline

Spousal support estimate 750 ILCS 5/504(b-1)

The formula is used only if the two of you earn under $500,000 together before taxes, neither pays support from an earlier relationship, and the judge agrees it fits. The judge first decides whether any support is owed at all. A long marriage alone does not mean it is.

Time limits for claiming wasted money 750 ILCS 5/503(d)(2)

If one spouse used shared money just for themselves while the marriage was ending (called dissipation), the other can ask for it back. There are two look-back limits, and a notice deadline: the later of 60 days before trial or 30 days after the information exchange closes.

Child support

A rough child support number is on Your children, next to the nights the kids spend in each home.

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Your case details

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Before you file

What people do to get ready once they know a divorce is coming, and moves to watch for from the other side. This is general information about the law, not advice for your case.

Getting ready

  1. Copy the money papers while you can still get to them. Tax returns for several years, pay stubs, and bank, credit card, retirement and loan statements. Deeds and car titles too. The financial affidavit must be backed by “income tax returns, pay stubs, and banking statements.” 750 ILCS 5/501(a)(1) Add each one to Your papers.
  2. List what you own and owe, with a value and a date for each. Anything either of you got during the marriage is presumed to belong to both of you. A spouse who says something is only theirs has to prove it. 750 ILCS 5/503(b)(1) So keep proof of anything you had before the marriage, or got as a gift or inheritance.
  3. Keep proof of your own income over time, not just this month. Spousal support is worked out from each spouse’s take-home pay. 750 ILCS 5/504(b-1)
  4. Know how long you have been married on the day you file. How long spousal support can last depends on the length of the marriage counted to the day the case is filed. 750 ILCS 5/504(b-1)(1)(B) The spousal support estimate shows the math.
  5. Keep a dated log of money events. Large withdrawals, transfers, new accounts, sudden changes in pay. A claim about wasted money has to name the property and the dates. 750 ILCS 5/503(d)(2)(ii)
  6. Get your credit report to see every debt in your name.
  7. Change your passwords on email, phone and money accounts, and keep your notes somewhere only you can open.
  8. Talk to a lawyer before you file, even once. The Will County Bar Association runs a lawyer referral service: (815) 726-0383.

Moves to watch for

Some people prepare by making the other spouse look richer, or themselves poorer, before the case starts. If you see any of these, write it down with dates and talk to a lawyer.

Income going down before the case

What it can look like: Hours cut, a move to a lower-paid job, a raise or bonus put off, pay taken in cash.

What the law says: Spousal support is worked out from each spouse’s take-home pay. 750 ILCS 5/504(b-1) When splitting property, the judge also looks at each spouse’s income and their chance to earn in the future. 750 ILCS 5/503(d) Whether a judge can count income a spouse could earn but chose not to is not confirmed yet. Ask a lawyer.

What helps: Pay stubs and work schedules from before and after the change. Messages about it. Tax returns that show past income.

Money moved or spent

What it can look like: Cash withdrawals, transfers to family or a new account, big purchases, gambling, money spent on a new partner.

What the law says: Money one spouse used just for themselves while the marriage was ending is called dissipation, and the other spouse can claim it. The claim needs a written notice with the dates and what was taken. It cannot reach back more than 3 years after you knew, or 5 years before the case was filed. 750 ILCS 5/503(d)(2) Once a case is open, a judge can order a spouse not to move or hide property. 750 ILCS 5/501(a)(2)

What helps: Statements that show the money going out. Your dated log. The wasted-money time limits calculator.

Things left off or hidden

What it can look like: Accounts you did not know about, business income kept off the books, a financial affidavit that leaves things out.

What the law says: If a spouse files an affidavit that is wrong on purpose or carelessly, the judge must order “significant penalties and sanctions,” which can include paying the other side’s costs and lawyer fees. 750 ILCS 5/501(a)(1)

What helps: Copies of statements and tax returns made before the case started, so you can compare.

Debt run up

What it can look like: New credit cards or loans, especially in both names.

What the law says: Debts taken on during the marriage are part of what gets divided, just like property. 750 ILCS 5/503(a)

What helps: Your credit report, and statements showing when each debt started and what it paid for.

Shared things called “mine”

What it can look like: A spouse says an account, car or valuable was a gift, an inheritance, or theirs from before the marriage.

What the law says: Everything gotten during the marriage is presumed to belong to both spouses. The spouse who says otherwise has to prove it. 750 ILCS 5/503(b)(1)

What helps: Records of when and how each thing was bought, and with whose money.

Laws change, and every case is different. Check anything here with a lawyer before you act on it.

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Your house and what you own

List what you and your spouse own and owe. See what a house is worth to each of you, and your choices for it. It all stays on this device.

Do you own a home?

What you own and owe

Add each thing you or your spouse own, and each debt. This list also helps you fill in your financial affidavit.

What a house is worth to each of you

Your choices for the house

1. Sell it and split the money

You sell the house. At the closing, the mortgage is paid off first. Then you split what is left the way your settlement agreement says.

You will need a price you both agree on, and someone to sell it.

2. One of you keeps it

The one who keeps the house pays the other for their part of the equity. That is a buyout. The keeper gets a new loan in their own name. That is a refinance. The other signs a quitclaim deed, and it is recorded with the county.

You will need an appraisal, a bank that will refinance, and a deed. If the keeper cannot refinance, both names stay on the loan.

3. Keep it together for a while

Some couples keep the house for a time, then sell it. Write down who pays the mortgage, the taxes, and the repairs, and when it will be sold.

Both names stay on the loan until then. If a payment is missed, it hurts you both.

During the case, a judge can let one spouse stay in the home alone only if living together puts someone’s health or safety at risk. There must be a sworn petition, notice, and a full hearing. 750 ILCS 5/501(c-2)

Retirement accounts and debts

A retirement account or a pension earned during the marriage is usually marital property. To split one, the judge signs a special order. Then the money can move without a penalty. For most job plans it is a QDRO. For Illinois government pensions it is a QILDRO.

A debt in both names stays a debt of you both until it is paid. That is true even if the judgment says one of you pays it. If that person does not pay, the lender can still ask the other.

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Your children

Plan the nights the kids spend in each home, see a rough child support number, and draft a parenting plan. It all stays on this device. The parts about children are new, and some are not confirmed yet. Each one says so.

Do you have children together?

Good to know

  • Illinois does not say custody and visitation any more. It says parental responsibilities, for who makes the big choices, and parenting time.
  • Both parents must take a parenting class. It may cost a fee, unless the judge waives it.
  • If you do not agree about everything, the judge can send you to mediation, or pick a lawyer for the kids.
  • A divorce with children often takes 6 months to 2 years, with many court dates.
  • Each parent turns in a parenting plan. It may be due 120 days after the case is filed or served.
  • The judge may pick a guardian ad litem to find out what is best for the kids.
  • A big move with the kids, called relocation, may need the other parent’s OK in writing, or the judge’s. You may have to tell the other parent well ahead of time.
  • A court here can usually decide for the kids if they have lived in Illinois for the last 6 months. That is called their home state.

Where this comes from: the state’s Divorce with Children Overview (updated 03/2020). Anything marked not confirmed is not from there.

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Words to know

What the legal words in Blackletter mean, in plain words. Anywhere in Blackletter, a word with a dotted line under it is on this list. Tap the word to see what it means.

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All steps

Every step of a divorce, in order. If you have children, their steps are added in. Add the dates you have and each step works out its own due date.

The petitioner is the spouse who starts the divorce case. The respondent is the spouse who answers it.

If yes, the steps for children are added. Your children

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